There isn't one. Bigotry isn't ok. Really simple.
This is why it's called a wedge issue. Some of them do have options, this one really doesn't. So, it's speak or be spoken for, and we sort it all out at the ballot box, and we sort it again and again.
Isn't it nice getting your own treatment F&B? That is exactly what the right does on most everything. Time to step up, rub some faces in the ugly and see where it all shakes out.
I came to that realization after Obama was elected, and the party line was, "make him fail", and "hope he fails", despite that President bending over double backward to deal on issues. After that performance, fuck 'em. It's clear now things come to a matter of clarity and will.
Not all things, mind you, but this is one of those things for sure.
Edit: And before I leave for the night, know I NEVER said there would be compromise on this. Racism, bigotry and theocracy are not ok. Ever.